Ray Kwan.
Why teach on this subject?
1. Not much on aging is taught.
2. Ministering to the Convalescent Home.
3. Planning to go to Japan and Japan has a very elderly population.
4. How to Minister to our Parents.
Everyone has a desire to Live Healthier and Longer.
Outline for today:
1. Greek/Hebrew terms of Aging.
2. Survey a handful of verses on aging (Mountaintops).
3. Derive Biblical Perspectives.
4. Inward (as we grow older) and Outward (minister to others that are older).
HEBREW (OT)
Zaqen: meaning to grow older (Genesis 18:11 Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; Sarah was past childbearing.)
Balah: meaning to be used up and worn away; rags. (Genesis 18:12 Sarah laughed to herself, saying, “After I have become old, shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?”)
Sebah: meaning to be grey-headed (Genesis 15:15 As for you, you shall go to your fathers in peace; you will be buried at a good old age. Proverbs 16:31 A gray head is a crown of glory; It is found in the way of righteousness.)
GREEK (NT)
Geron. ("Gerontology"): meaning elderly/old man. Pythagorean: Refers to a 60-80 year man. (John 3:4 Nicodemus said to Him, “How can a man be born when he is old? He cannot enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born, can he?”)
Palaios: to be in existence for a long time; now obsolete. (Ephesians 4:22 that, in reference to your former manner of life, you lay aside the old self, which is being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit,)
Presbuterous ("Presbyterian"): relatively advanced in age (Hebrews 11:2 For by it the men of old gained approval. Titus 1:5 For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you,)
SURVEY of VERSES
Genesis 1-3. Time. Beginning of Man. Introduction of Death into the World.
All Genesis. What is considered a full life span? [Noah 900. Shem 600. Aber 464. Pera 205. Abraham 175 ("a ripe old age"). Joseph 110. Decline of lifespan.]
And what is considered old? A: Past childbearing. Loss of functionality (sight, loss of circulation, etc).
Levites were to retire at 50 from lifting in the tabernacle.
Decay...
Ecclesiastes 12:1-8 Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth, before the evil days come and the years draw near when you will say, “I have no delight in them”; 2 before the sun and the light, the moon and the stars are darkened, and clouds return after the rain; 3 in the day that the watchmen of the house tremble, and mighty men stoop, the grinding ones stand idle because they are few, and those who look through windows grow dim; 4 and the doors on the street are shut as the sound of the grinding mill is low, and one will arise at the sound of the bird, and all the daughters of song will sing softly. 5 Furthermore, men are afraid of a high place and of terrors on the road; the almond tree blossoms, the grasshopper drags himself along, and the caperberry is ineffective. For man goes to his eternal home while mourners go about in the street. 6 Remember Him before the silver cord is broken and the golden bowl is crushed, the pitcher by the well is shattered and the wheel at the cistern is crushed; 7 then the dust will return to the earth as it was, and the spirit will return to God who gave it. 8 “Vanity of vanities,” says the Preacher, “all is vanity!”
Resurrection...
Daniel 12:1-2 “Now at that time Michael, the great prince who stands guard over the sons of your people, will arise. And there will be a time of distress such as never occurred since there was a nation until that time; and at that time your people, everyone who is found written in the book, will be rescued. 2 Many of those who sleep in the dust of the ground will awake, these to everlasting life, but the others to disgrace and everlasting contempt.
Partial Reversal of the Curse during Millennial Kingdom...
Isaiah 65:20 “No longer will there be in it an infant who lives but a few days,
Or an old man who does not live out his days;
Or an old man who does not live out his days;
For the youth will die at the age of one hundred
And the one who does not reach the age of one hundred
Will be thought accursed.
And the one who does not reach the age of one hundred
Will be thought accursed.
- Increased longevity.
- Clearly not in our day and age.
- Neither in the eternal state.
- So this will occur in the time in between those two. Partial Reversal of the curse.
Redemption of our bodies...
Romans 8:19-23 For the anxious longing of the creation waits eagerly for the revealing of the sons of God. 20 For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself also will be set free from its slavery to corruption into the freedom of the glory of the children of God. 22 For we know that the whole creation groans and suffers the pains of childbirth together until now. 23 And not only this, but also we ourselves, having the first fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our body.
- Only when our bodies are redeemed can adoption be complete.
Character of Older Saints...
Titus 2:2 Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in perseverance. 3 Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good
Final Renewal...
Revelations 21:1-4 Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth passed away, and there is no longer any sea. 2 And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them, 4 and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away.”
DERIVE BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE
1. Aging is not the problem; Death and Decay is.
2. Man should seek to live Godly and full lives on Earth. Godly men like Job lived to a ripe old age and was satisfied with it. Life is not the problem, it's what we're doing with it. Even though life is hard, we should still live well and live it for God.
3. This life is not all there is. This life is way overrated. Endure suffering knowing that there is something better coming.
LOOK INWARD
- Avoid the pitfall of not being teachable. Wisdom doesn't come with age.
- Avoid the pitfall of making life more about ourselves.
Ecclesiastes 5:19-20 Furthermore, as for every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, He has also empowered him to eat from them and to receive his reward and rejoice in his labor; this is the gift of God. 20 For he will not often consider the years of his life, because God keeps him occupied with the gladness of his heart.
To be happy in this life, we need to be right with God.
- Avoid the pitfall of not worshipping as much. Don't lose the desire to worship. In retirement, look forward to worshipping more.
- Avoid the pitfall of serving less. Don't stunt your spiritual growth. Don't cruise through life.
Psalm 92:12-15
12 The righteous man will flourish like the palm tree,
He will grow like a cedar in Lebanon.
13 Planted in the house of the Lord,
They will flourish in the courts of our God.
14 They will still yield fruit in old age;
They shall be full of sap and very green,
15 To declare that the Lord is upright;
He is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in Him.
He is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in Him.
Psalm 90:12
So teach us to number our days,
That we may present to You a heart of wisdom.
- Time is Precious.- At the end, what will you be able to present to God?
Paul's Life. The greatest comeback in the 2nd half of his life.
2 Timothy 4:7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith;
- Avoid the pitfall of fearing death.
1 John 2:28 Now, little children, abide in Him, so that when He appears, we may have confidence and not shrink away from Him in shame at His coming.
- If we live faithfully, we will not be afraid to meet Him.
- Christians, remember that we will be judged as well...
1 Corinthians 3:12-15 Now if any man builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, 13 each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it because it is to be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work. 14 If any man’s work which he has built on it remains, he will receive a reward.15 If any man’s work is burned up, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.
LOOK OUTWARD
- Honor you parents. Don't speak harshly to them when they give you advice. Speak kindly of them and to them.
- Treat Older People outside the family respectfully as well.
1 Timothy 5:1 Do not sharply rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, to the younger men as brothers, 2 the older women as mothers, and the younger women as sisters, in all purity.
Leviticus 19-32 ‘You shall rise up before the gray headed and honor the aged, and you shall revere your God; I am the Lord.
- Don't sharply rebuke them, even if they are wrong.
- Don't get impatient if an elderly person is driving slower or taking longer at the store. Remember that that person is made in the image of God as well.
- Take care of those that cannot take care of themselves. God has a special place in Heart for the weak. Some of God's fav people are widows and orphans.
Exodus 22:22 You shall not afflict any widow or orphan. 23 If you afflict him at all, and if he does cry out to Me, I will surely hear his cry; 24 and My anger will be kindled, and I will kill you with the sword, and your wives shall become widows and your children fatherless.
- God is serious about protecting the orphans and widows, in this life or in eternity.
- God loves the weak, in general.
Luke 14:13-14 But when you give a reception, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, 14 and you will be blessed, since they do not have the means to repay you; for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
Application: Convalescent Ministry.
Fear of someone with dementia. Yet, remember that God saved us when we were DEAD in our trespasses. We are still to minister to them. It is not our job to save them, but it is our job to preach the gospel to them.
"If it breaths, preach to it." ~Ray's professor.
There is value in the visit itself. The gift is your presence.
James 1:27 Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.
- Job's friends were at their best when they were just there in silence for Job. Bad counselors but good friends.
Matthew 10:42 And whoever in the name of a disciple gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say to you, he shall not lose his reward.”
-Every little act is noticed by God. And the reward will be much more than what little effort you had to put in.
-Every little act is noticed by God. And the reward will be much more than what little effort you had to put in.
Ray: "What do you do all week?"
Convalescent Resident: "I don't do anything, I'm just waiting to die."
That made me think.
Who are you becoming?